Hey girl hey. And boy.
We all had crushes when we were younger. Some of us still do today. But most of the time, we almost always end up embarrassing ourselves in the end. In total, I think I’ve had 10 crushes so far. Okay don’t judge me – some of them lasted months when others lasted like a day.ย ๐
My first crush was this guy in KG2/SK whose name was Elliot. He had blonde hair and blue eyes and was heading back to France so literally everyone gave him gifts. I gave him my precious alphabet book like guys, the love was real. ๐ย And from that day on, I made it my mission to go to Paris and bump into him in some cafe.ย ๐ย Jk jk but you guys, this guy had a crush on my friend Raya in her hometown and his name was Elliot with the same fricking features as my old crush. I’m SURE it was him but she didn’t even want to ask him about which kindergarten school he went to like thanks.ย ๐ย Anyways, despite being an awkward potato, I actually don’t have that many embarrassing crush stories so I’ll also be including creepy crushes that I’ve encountered as a kid.
Before we get started, this is a collab with the amazing and hilarious blogger,ย RelatableExistance. She just came back from her billion year hiatus so I was so excited that she took interest in collabing with me. Over at her blog, she’s going to be sharingย Awkward Moments At Schoolย and it’s definitely more relatable while mine is more personal so you definitely need to read it. ๐ย But anyways, let’s get storytelling.
- Spiky Hair Obsession
So I liked this guy in grade 3. You could say it was love at first sight. As I glanced to my left.. I noticed a head of gorgeous spiky hair and… yeah no I’m kidding. But in grade 3, I had a crazy obsession with spiky hair. I think it’s mainly because I grew up with brothers who watched Dragon Ball Z and Naruto but anyways.
You know how it’s like as a kid- you get a crush and then act like you’re planning an army of 4 billion elephants to crush him (no wonder it’s called crush) – like the hatred was real (or should I say fake? I’m so funny). It was so dumb that whenever anything dropped under his chair, I’d call it haunted and perform an exorcism and a cleaning ritual. ๐ย Anyways, I stopped liking him mid grade 5? And then I told my friends he was a very old crush and they went ahead and TOLD him right in front of my eyes like ???? Way to make it awkward.
Like hey dude, I liked you for a while, how are you today? Ugh it was really annoying but whatever. By the way, we had this whole teasing and prank wars going back and forth between our squads but I saw him again this year and he didn’t even remember me like do guys even remember elementary school? I don’t think so.ย ๐
2. Brother’s Best Friend
You know how it’s like my best friend’s brother? Well I wasn’t joking about my love for spiky hair in 3rd grade because I even liked my brother’s friend. I never even talked to him but one day I wanted to spy on them in our backyard and then my brother pretended to tell him I liked him and I ran all the way up the hill back home with my flip flops. It sucked and I’m pretty sure I fell.
3. Glasses Shipment
This isn’t really about a crush but more so people shipping me with this guy that I didn’t even know in 4th grade. It was SO annoying and awkward and when I asked everyone why they ship me with him, they’re like “well you both have glasses…and you’re smart” like I’m not sure if I should take it as a compliment or just be plain annoyed.
4. A Disastrous Morning
Okay now this is probably the worst of them all and probably my longest crush. We’ll call him Pickle. We actually got along pretty well in 5th grade but in 6th grade, we had different classes and he got really popular and rude by the end. But anyways, in 5th grade, we were totally chill but for some reason in grade 6, I acted really weird and over the top. So I had Saturday school with my best friend every week and one day, Pickle showed up at the registration and I freaked out?! I ran to the other exit and walked in that way to avoid him like wow I’m so immature.
One of the teachers called me in to help her with some papers so I had a HUGE pile of papers and books with me. I walked into the room I needed it to be delivered to and surprise surprise Pickle was there. The teacher said to deliver the papers to the class next door but on my way out, my backpack got stuck in the door and I fell along with the huge pile of paper. It was so embarrassing and ughhgjdshfkl.
And to top it off, when he was being introduced as a new member to the class, the teacher asked if we knew him and Raya was like yeah while I said NO at the same time. Like ewww cringe. The teacher was like “B that’s not so nice” like ugh why was I so- anyways, moral of the story – don’t overreact and just act like a normal human being.ย ๐
5. Iย Love Youย
I’m technically done with awkward crush stories because like I said, I didn’t really have many so now we’re moving on to guys who confessed to me and it didn’t really end so well. So this one is in 1st grade where this teacher always put me beside this one guy and he KEPT writing I Love B (well my full name) in his notebooks and showing me. And I know you all are like aww but it was really disturbing as a kid and I just didn’t want to deal with it. ๐ย Plus, every time I left school with my brother, he would watch me like if that’s not creepy, I don’t know what is. Now looking back, he was just trying to be straightforward but I was just not having it.ย ๐
6. Tell Me 5 Reasons Why
In 6th grade, this guy that was kind of in my friend group messaged me on Facebook that he liked me. And you guys, I wish I just said ‘Sorry- I don’t return the same feelings’ or ‘Thanks I love me too’ but I literally said ‘WHY? Give me FIVE reasons why’ like what?! I might as well given him a final exam essay assignment while I was at it. ๐ย He was like “Um.. I don’t know. I just do” and I don’t remember how the conversation went after that.ย ๐ย Let’s just say it was pretty awkward when I saw him at school again but we got over it.
7. Can I Kiss You?
And to end this all off, here’s a funny one. In second grade, there was this really annoying guy who liked everyone. He was not even trying to hide it and literally asked every girl if they wanted to be his girlfriend. It was the end of the day, and he came up to me like “can I kiss you?”. I was obviously like oh hell nah and rushed out so fast. To my surprise, he chased me all the way to the parking lot like BOIII. I was so scared and literally pleaded the crossing guard to speed up the stoplight. He just laughed in response like thanks.ย ๐
Looking back, crushes are one of the things that made school more interesting and it’s always funny reflecting on it with friends. My only advice is just chill out and never tell your friends about crushes until ten years later. ๐ย I probably won’t have any more crushes in the near future because we all know what teenage boys really want but it’s fun to look back at when they used to be innocent.ย ๐ย We’ll see a part 2 when guys get mature in University.ย ๐
Do you have any awkward/embarrassing crush stories?
Who was your first crush?
Did you act really immature when someone confessed to you? (it’s just me? okay cool ๐)
Make sure you check out RelatableExistance’s postย and I’ll see you all tomorrow.
Bayyyย ๐
XD Most of my crushes are either fictional characters or youtubers. So… I have no chances to be their wife.
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Omggg same I love fictional characters ๐ But aw girl you’ll find someone when it’s the right time (no boyfriends before marriage โ๏ธ๐)
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yessssssssssssssss i cannot date or have boyfriends ( besides in my dreams) FICTIONAL BOYS ARE PRECIOUS!!
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Why do I remember all of the crushes Iโve had in my life by reading yours??? I used to be part of the โlooking for a blonde hair blue eyes princely guy โ gang and he was my first proper crush from when I was like eight years old. He was a major douchedbag though and did crappy things behind my back but thatโs for a different time. Iโve always fantasised about having a crush on โa brothers best friendโ or a โfriends brotherโ but you see a) I donโt have a brother and b) all my friends brothers are my sisters age aka ten year olds and Iโm not into that so….i can at least dream it at night? Whatโs the most annoying is that my classmates in elementary school labelled me and this other guy together because when our names are mashed together a new actual name is created, like you know those celebrity couple names like โkimyeโ or in the recent past โjelenaโ but what made it worse was that our couple name was a real name that people have. Ughhhh Iโm done for crushes right now and am drooling over characters from novels and Wattpad stories though. They never disappoint. ๐
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HAHAHAHA wow ๐๐ Omggg same but now I’m into good personalities. ๐ Aww what that’s so mean – you need to make a post on that. Really? I feel like that would be weird because your brother or best friend would be the third wheel and idk ๐๐ Omggg that sucks and ugh I hate being shipped with people. SAME guys in books are just so charming but not realistic unfortunately ๐ญ
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I dunno I just feel like itโs such a classic romance story you know. The brotherโs best friend/ best friendโs brother whom you always saw around the house since you were small but then gradually falling in love with him as you both grow older, but he sees you as a little sister and…..Iโm gonna halt there because this is starting to sound like a wattpad book but thatโs my point you know itโs such a fictional story like romance and I was so into that when I was younger. Iโm not sure if Iโm gonna make a post about some guy I havenโt spoken two words to and wonโt ever see again because I donโt think heโs worth it but thank you for the suggestion. Iโll just stick to my 2D guys until min fifty ๐คฃ
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this post was so funny ahaha ๐! i had one in primary/elementary school and that didnโt go so well… anyway! i really enjoyed reading this post and i have come to the conclusion that you are literally the most relatable person ever ๐!
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Thank youu ๐๐ Omg girl you need to tell me all about it. WHAT thank youuu so much – that means a lot and I’m so glad you can relate (yup, I just wished eternal awkwardness and embarassment upon you but hey, I have my good features too ๐) Thanks again!
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I remember this boy had a crush on me and he would constantly tell my friends about how much he loved me. I mean, it was cute but also, I’m awkward. This one day after maths class, he called out my name and there was something in my gut that was telling me he was gonna ask me out or confess to me and I started speedwalking and he called my name and I turned and yelled “SORRRY I NEED TO PISS!” And I ran ๐ Great post!
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Ahahahaha omg ๐๐ Ikrr it’s cute but at the same time it’s like no thanks. OMGG I would legit do that too ๐๐ That’s so funny oml. ๐ญ๐ Thnak youuu.
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Yeah I think I low-key have commitment issues when it comes to relationships ๐ and I knoww but I still feel awkward when I see him around, I think he probably hates me now ๐๐ฌ
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Lool yes. Honestly I won’t bother finding someone until University. Omgg ๐ he’s probably like “even if I say hello at this point, she’s going to speedwalk away”. ๐ Jk he probably doesn’t hate you. ๐
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Same with me! And I feel bad but also no regrets ๐
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my first crush was a guy who worked at mcdonaldโs.
i think iโm done here.
my second crush also worked at mcdonaldโs.
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Woww. Like did he know you outside of work or was it love at first sight when you ordered your fries? ๐
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Single-sided love at first side over ice cream.
Boiii he made good ice cream cones XD
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Ohhhhhhhhh, my, Bay….
I’ve only ever had fictional crushes, and I’ve never had a boy tell me he liked me but I think I might like one of my brothers friends and I’m currently freaking out because I really don’t want all that drama. The unfortunate thing is, I think my unique way of flirting is teasing this guy and being needlessly sarcastic. For example, yesterday he asked me where the glasses were, and I said ”On my face, I kinda need them to see and stuff.” and he was just like…”no, like the drinking glasses,” and I said ”well you’re gonna need a strong blender to liquefy these,” and there was this brief silence and then I just said ”yeah, they’re in the cabinet next to the window. And you can probably see where the faucet is.” but as he walked away I couldn’t help adding ”There’s also a pond in the woods if you want more flavor!!”
Luckily this guy also likes teasing (hes like 5 years older than I am, I don’t know why I sort of kind of maybe just a little like him) but I usually start it because he sort of flusters me I guess. And for some weird reason I react by being sarcastic. So unless I meet a guy who likes me for that, I think I’m gonna be single for life.
Also, once my friend and I were at her house and we were up in her attic, and found an old backpack full of notebooks. Well….turns out they were her SISTER’S DIARIES. But we didn’t realize it until we started reading them and turns out she liked my other brother’s best friend who is like the awkwardest guy who avoids girls like the plague. It’s a small world, I guess…
Great posy! I laughed so hard while reading it.
~Natalie
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Fictional characters are just the best but I’ve had my fair share of crushes as well. xD Omggg gurl your sense of humour will get you lots of people I’m sure. But I’m not too sure about the 5 year difference right now. Maybe when you’re 25 and he’s 30. ๐ AAH that’s so cool. I wish I can read other people’s diaries. ๐ Wow it really is a small world and haha my brother avoids girls like the plague too. If a girl says hi he straight up asks “what do u want” xD
Neat commy! So glad you enjoyed.
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Fictional crushes suck though because you’ll never ever meet the character and usually the character has someone else but….
Haha,maybe, but maybe not while I’m mocking them XD
XD XD That’s my brother tooo! When we meet each other IRL maybe they can hang out and talk about…whatever guys talk about.
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omgggg, bay!! thank you for absolutely making my day with this post. crushes are just so.. ugh! i literally had one from year 6 to half way through year 8 and OMG, *face palm*. crushing for two years on one guy, i look back at that and say โsoph, never again.โ honest, i didnโt tell anyyyy of my friends in school about this guy and basically (apart from friends out side of school) kept it to myself. so.. i mean yโall might think thatโs the end of the story but noooo. iโm 99% sure that at the end of year seven he started liking me back, like ahem? excuse me? since when? i was not prepared for this! ooft ๐๐
so i was about to send the casual message โheyโ to his insta dmโs but thank goodness my friend interrupted at the exact moment i was about to press โsendโ and was like โwhat you doing?โ and i told her and she said
โsoph, go for it. but donโt make your future self regret it.โ best. advice. ever. thank gosh i didnโt send that cause i stopped liking him really soon after that and now we are over it but ahhhh.. boys. crushes. lol. ๐๐๐๐คฆ๐ปโโ๏ธ
thanks for a hilarious and golden post, soph xx
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GURL whattt you made my day with this comment! ๐ญ Omggg ikr long crushes are a huge waste of time but I can’t control itttt ๐ HAHAHA oml girl that’s so me. I like someone and when they like me back im like hold up why? No? Bye? ๐ That’s great advice! Girl never send a ‘hey’ to your crush – whenever a guy sends me hey, I don’t reply ๐ Start out with something like OMG I GOT BIT BY A SPIDER – jk jk don’t do that ๐ Thank youuu again! ๐
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hahahah, so true! absolutely ๐๐๐คฆ๐ปโโ๏ธ definitely, i sooo wonโt make that mistake again, lol. HAHA thatโs such a good idea, hehe, โomg please reply i got bit by a spider, i need helpโ.. iโll make it a plan! ๐๐ hereโs to the single ladies!
soph xx
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girlll you need to call me like right now I have so many questions ๐
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HAHAHAHA okay ๐๐
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My heart hurts this is so good omg ๐๐๐๐๐๐๐ First of all, I love your title for each story!!! ๐โค THANKS FOR MAKING ME LAUGH AGAIN HAHAHAHA I wish I was there to witness everything ๐ Your experiences are like movie scenes wow really just wow ๐ฏ๐ My fave is number 7, THAT’S JUST SO FREAKING HILARIOUS I SERIOUSLY WON’T GET OVER THAT UNTIL NEXT YEAR ๐ xxx
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Thank youuuu ๐๐ Glad you enjoyed my trauma ๐๐๐ Omg no you would’ve kept reminding me forever ๐ I don’t even know how all these happened and UGH NUMBER 7 IM STILL TRAUMATIZED ๐๐๐ Thank you so much for reading!!
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You’re welcome ๐ Just imagine if he really did kiss you ๐ AWRGHFADHV Lucky you, that didn’t happen ๐
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I WOULD DIE ๐๐๐ Like legit never go to school for the rest of the year and file a lawsuit ๐
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i totally get you ๐๐๐
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I canโt believe you asked a guy to tell you 5 reasons why he likes you. What were you thinking? Or were you just fishing for compliments?! ๐๐
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Ugh give me a break I was 11 ๐ญ Noo I was just really confused as to why people liked me and I just wanted to get to the bottom of it. ๐๐
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Thatโs what they all say… ๐๐
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ohmygosh this is so relateable–i’m way older than you were when you had these crushes but I still freaked out and said sh**, SO LOUDLY, when I saw the guy I used to like at this school event thing. His whole GROUP heard me and turned around as I literally went into the opposite direction and hid in a behind a wall. A girlfriend was with me and when I told her what happened she peeked out of the wall, smiled, and waved at him like girllll way to blow my cover! I was so embarrased but also I talked to him for all of two seconds later as I was going down the stairs and met him and another guy friend.
Haha so agree with you about teenage boys XD. The more I get to know them the more I’m like nah thanks bruh. ๐
PS. I haven’t forgotten about the Would You Rather Tag I’m just slow with my blogging!
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๐๐๐๐ Hahahha omg I’m dying. ๐๐ I avoid my crushes at all costs too!! ๐๐ IKR like at first I’m like hey maybe they’re one of the good guys but then I hear them with their friends and I’m like okay no. ๐ Aah it’s okay! If it’s too confusing, you can just give your nominees ten random questions – it doesn’t have to be on a theme (I’ll update that post soon)
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